Leaving Things In The Past-11/2/18

Leaving Things In The Past- 11/2/18
Hey guys I am back with a new blog and this one is important to me because it involves taking a step that can push your life forward and it can allow you to become a much happier person. So guys let’s get into what I am blogging about today.

So basically guys I wanna say that you are only stopping your own happiness by dwelling on the past. Even if it’s something big that happened and hurt you it’s best to just move on from it. Over the last few months I’ve became so much better at focusing on the present and it’s lead to me becoming so much happier.
I’ve been through some major issues in the past that range quite wildly. For example I was picked on a lot at school by people and this ruined my ability to enjoy growing up quite a lot. However, instead of holding a grudge about it now I’m thankful about it because I’m a much stronger person now and it is far harder for anything to bring me down.
Just take a moment and think about what you’ve been through and how much pain you’ve endured.
Ask yourself, “Is that all worth holding onto?”
If you realise it isn’t then you’ll progress on to bigger and better things. For example, a big thing people make the mistake of is not letting go of their previous relationship quick enough therefore rushing into a new one and having all of this emotional baggage still at the front of their mind.
This is so unhealthy and from experience it’s pretty fatal for the relationship. It ended my 2nd relationship and I then went on and rushed my 3rd which lead to me being stuck in a rut in my life for a long time. I’m now in my 4th relationship and this has been my most successful as I took long enough to remove any baggage I had in my emotions and now I can think clearly about my present and future with my wonderful girlfriend.
In friendships too I’ve made big strides over the last month or so. There’s been friendships of mines that haven’t always went well. Many tears have been shared and a lot of anger has been thrown about but if you are willing to put that behind you it is worth sorting out the friendship for. I now have that friendship back and I’m 100% sure both my friend and I know we are better than that.
At the end of the day it comes down to maturity. If you are mature enough to let things go then you’ll do well in life. I hope my post has helped you guys realise that some things aren’t worth holding onto forever.
Thanks for reading my content guys and I’d love to read your opinions in the comments below about things you’ve let go of and how you’ve progressed since.

0 thoughts on “Leaving Things In The Past-11/2/18

  1. This is something that many people realise too late in life. It’s hard to let go, but it makes you a better, stronger person. I was also picked on in school and it taught me to be more kind, understanding and open as I made new friendships. Thank you for sharing this, I think it will help a lot of people!

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