A blog with Sophie
Hey guys, I am back with another blog and this one is the first with my girlfriend since I have chosen to go self-hosted. In this blog, we will be discussing how our relationship is going now that we have been together for 18 months and how we plan to keep it going strong for many a year to come. If you guys could show some awesome support as always we would greatly appreciate it and I will be doing a lot more with Sophie in regards to my blog so always keep an eye out for that too.
How things started
In January 2017 when I first met Paul, I wasn’t waking anything for granted and didn’t really know what to expect to happen. It was great that we just took everything a day at a time and I think that is one of the factors as to how our relationship has lasted so long so far. It has been wonderful so far and hopefully, it continues.
We didn’t do the usual method when it came to building our relationship. We literally spoke once in December 2016 then for a couple of days after 2017 new year and decided that we should meet up. Doing everything the “normal” way never ever worked for me before but being so spontaneous Sophie has built up something special with me.
The journey continued
Yep, it all happened so fast and I don’t regret it for a second. A lot of people have milestones in their relationships but as Paul said we have gone through it very spontaneously. We have also both helped each other through difficult times throughout our relationship such as people being crap, bereavements etc so it works wonderfully that way too. We both hope that whatever life throws at us in the future, we will get through together.
We do so much for each other it’s crazy. We both hold each up through bad anxiety days, hold each other’s earnings together, look for ways together to improve and so much more. I hope it’ll always stay that way because I’ve become a far greater person with Sophie and achieved so much in the 18 months that we have spent together.
What is to come from us
In the future, I think the next big thing we will probably do is get our own place once we save up some money. I have my little business and Paul has his job he is currently really enjoying so hopefully it won’t be long until we are able to do that. Personally, I think it would be great and it would be a kind of milestone for us.
The great thing about us is that we are both incredibly ambitious but know how to not aim too high too quickly. We always take it one step at a time and understand that we need to be patient. I am still only 24 years old and Sophie only turns 23 in 3 weeks time so there is plenty of time in hand for us to achieve everything that we aim for. Living in the moment is something we do well and it’ll be great knowing we can go exploring right now and discover ourselves in new places before we have to settle and pay a lot of bills.
Our final thoughts
That is it for this blog, I hope you have enjoyed reading a little more about our relationship. Bye for now! Sophie.
Paul here and I also hope that you always enjoy the content that we produce together. Sophie is a big reason as to why I blog and stay so committed too so appreciate her as much as me. Thank you for reading and don’t forget to stay shining.