Am I normal for my age?
Hey guys, I am finally back with a new blog and this one is about whether or not I feel like I am normal compared to other people my age. I feel like this is a good thing to think about because being different is such an amazing thing and if you guys would love to share what you think of me and how I act in the comments then I would greatly appreciate it. I would also love to know how you view others in terms of whether you think you are normal or not. Let’s get right into the blog.
Going by social media it is pretty common for people my age to be out drinking alcohol, have loads of friends and be stressed 24/7. However, I feel like none of that describes me at all. I am a very level-headed individual who has their life planned out very well and I haven’t drunk alcohol in 18 months now. I definitely don’t have many friends either as I have become so distant due to the fact I don’t drink and also due to the fact my life is consumed by work and my relationship but I definitely do not see that as a bad thing.
I definitely think that by being different from everyone else is actually the thing that saved me both mentally and physically. I used to be tired 24/7 and living at 100mph constantly and that wasn’t healthy for me. I kept making rash decisions because I never knew what I was doing with my life whereas now I make calm, well thought out decisions that have got me stability and a happy life.
My advice to people my age would be to do what you want and not what you think is normal or what other people want you to do. It is easy to be pressured in today’s world because everything is on social media and communication is simple. However, living your life is something only you can do and that is why you need to do things your way. I would love to have loads of close friends too but I don’t regret anything about my life and the way it is because my job is amazing and my relationship is the best and longest one that I’ve ever been in.
This has been my first blog in a while, guys. I would love for you guys to tell me what you think and share your opinions in the comments. Have a great day.