Life without luck
Here’s a question for you guys to answer in the comments below:
What would your life be like if you were a bit luckier at different times when you were growing up?
For me, I would have such a different life and I will be going on to discuss some of the things in my life that could have been super different had I just had a bit of luck earlier on in my life. I would also love to know what you think of the luck you have had in your life so feel free to mention anything in the comments. Let’s get right into the blog.
Everything in school had gone so smoothly for me until it got to the last 2 years of high school. I had great results until then and then shit really happened. I got sick so often and my ability to sleep went straight out of the window. I ended up getting only 1 result I’m proud of from my last 2 years of high school and had I just had a lot more luck with sleep and illness I would have been in a position to do so well and probably got to university instead of college.
When it comes to friendships I have been super unlucky on so many occasions and I’ve had the dumbest things cause my friendships to end. The main one I can think of is due to the fact I lost friends because I didn’t want to get involved in the drama between a girl I was speaking to and my best friend’s girlfriend as it was absolutely nothing to do with any of us. Another unlucky thing about my friendships is that it very often has to be me making the conversation starts because if I don’t they simply never happen. I have found this out more since I’ve stopped drinking alcohol and also since I’ve been with my current girlfriend. People bother with you less and sometimes you just need to accept it.
A big thing about my life is that I always get super anxious on Friday the 13th’s but there is a big reason for this. My gran from my mum’s side of the family died in 2006 on a Friday the 13th and I didn’t even find out until the next day due to the fact I was at my other gran’s house straight from school that day and staying there overnight. I was heartbroken the next day when I found out but having the full October week off school following this allowed me to take it in and process it before going back to school.
I have had massive problems with illness in my 20s so far and a big part of that hasn’t just been physical but mental health too. I feel like I’m far stronger mentally now but I used to be anxious 24/7 and almost paranoid anytime I was out of the house. I don’t know if it was my Asperger’s Syndrome etc but I felt so out of the loop with everything. My physical health is still a bit of a major headache due to the fact I still have really wobbly days here and there and have had multiple blood tests that have come back showing nothing even though I know something is still there.
My final thoughts
I think my life would have been super different if I had more luck but in a way, things have kinda planned out well for me. I would love to know what you guys think of your own life and I’d also love to thank you for reading and supporting my content.
Have a great day.
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