The return of my blog

The return of my blog

Hey guys, I am back with a new blog and this one is my first in a long time. This is my first blog since March 24th. However, there are a couple of reasons for this. I will go on to talking about my hectic last few weeks and why the break had to happen now. I would love for you guys to tell me what you think of my first blog back and what you would love to read on my blog. Let’s get right into the blog.

It all changed- Part one

So guys, on March 12th I decided to leave my job because I felt like it was damaging my mental health too much. I had been feeling like any bad treatment of me from my closest colleague was not getting dealt with whatsoever and in the end, I couldn’t stay in a place where I felt like less of a worker than anyone else even though I put so much effort in each and every day. I felt like I could leave and just work hard on finding a new job super quickly and as I had saved a fair chunk of money each month it was possible for me to take time off in order to do that.

It all changed- Part two

On March 25th, my mother passed away just aged 43. I still don’t think it has sunk in purely because I have been so busy every single day since. This has been the biggest reason for the break from my blog. I couldn’t even look at my laptop without it being for another reason that wasn’t blogging. I still feel a bit drained from everything but I am almost there in terms of sorting everything out and trying to move forward. I had an interview on Friday for a job and I never even got the chance to properly prepare for it due to everything else going on.

Going Forward

I am just looking to try and get everything as normal as possible at the moment. It will take a while but if I can even manage a blog post or two a week while I’m not working then I will be super happy with it. I know how understanding you guys are too so I know whatever I manage in terms of the number of posts will be good enough. I will still aim for the highest quality in my blog posts because you guys deserve that. I am glad to be back posting and I look forward to discussing everything with you.

Thank you for reading and supporting my blog. Have a great day.

Here are some of my previous blogs:

Does follow/unfollow still exist?

The truth about blogging

Chronicles of my relationship

Life without luck

18 thoughts on “The return of my blog

  1. Nothing is as important as your mental health! I am glad that you prioritized and took care of yourself. Continue to do so. However many post you get out a week is more than enough.

  2. Welcome back! I am so glad that you had the strength to leave your job because it was causing your mental health to decline. You are so brave for being able to do that!
    However I am so, so sorry to hear about your mothers passing. I am sending you my deepest sympathies and condolences.

    Much love.

    – Nyxie

  3. Welcome back to blogging and sorry to hear about your loss. However, i am glad to hear you left your negative job and I hope things start looking up and forward for you now šŸ™‚

  4. I’m so sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing; I can’t even fathom a loss like that. šŸ’”šŸ˜¢ I hope you are able to use this platform as a safe space to express your emotions, and make sense of all the jumbled thoughts in your head. Sometimes, when I am hitting a brick wall because of trauma, I find it helps to do more of a bullet type post, rather than full paragraphs. I maybe write one sentence per line, maybe sometimes even just a phrase or two words. Really, anything that helps to get what it’s in my head flowing out from my hands. If I try and focus on making it perfect – I’ll go months without writing. Writing is the one area in which I am a perfectionist. All my pictures can hang crooked, my furniture can be mismatched, and my cubes can have no pattern whatsoever…but my writing must be perfect, or I stop and become annoyed and too irritated with myself to continue. Bullet blogging helps me overcome this tendency enough to at least unstop the fountain. I hope this helped some. ā¤ļø Again, I’m extremely sorry for your loss! Best of luck with this blog, and looking for a new job.

  5. Thank you so much for your kind words. I use bullet points in lists a lot and I’m planning a few more things like that ā¤

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